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A written program · Self-paced
Everyone has a way of life. But it is often undefined, fragmented, or inherited from others. This framework helps you build one you consciously choose.
$49 until December 31, then $99 · 30-day money-back guarantee
Your program
Pick up where you left off. Read and return at your own pace.
Areas, the Manual and the Planner. Together, they connect how you want to live with the actions you take. Below, one Area, Relations, filled in.
01 · Areas
Health, family, work, and everything else draw on the same time and energy. Five Areas give each part its own place, based on five relationships that represent the main ways you engage with life.
The five Areas
Your relationship with…
02 · The Manual
What you are aiming for, how you want to live, and who or what you learn from. You write a section like this for each Area.
Relations · Manual
How I want to live here
To have close, lasting relationships throughout life.
Presence: give full attention to the person in front of me.
Honesty: say what is true, even when it is uncomfortable.
Belonging: people need to belong; connection is a need, not a luxury.
Repair: every relationship has conflict; what lasts is how it is repaired.
Set aside regular time with the people closest to me.
Keep my word, and say early when I can’t.
People whose relationships I admire — how lasting relationships are kept.
Writers on communication and conflict — how to listen, and how to repair after conflict.
03 · The Planner
Set Goals, define the Tasks to reach them, and schedule those Tasks in Time Blocks. You write a Planner for the Areas you choose this year.
Relations · Planner
This year
Reconnect with at least five people I have drifted from.
List the people I have lost touch with.
Each month, reach out to one of them and arrange a call or meeting.
Follow up after each meeting, so the contact continues.
Host a gathering before the year ends.
Review the list each quarter.
This program doesn’t tell you how to live.
It gives you the structure to decide that yourself.
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The handbook
$9 once
The framework in 26 pages, as a PDF
A digital download, so no refunds.
Until December 31 · then $99
The program
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The framework in 36 readings, online
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The framework in 26 pages, as a PDF to keep.
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